Look Mumma, I’m Learning to Use the Potty!
Hi Mumma, potty learning is a big step for me. Here are some important insights to help us along the way:
Start Potty Learning Early with Playful Preparation
Early Engagement:
Potty learning doesn’t have to start with the immediate removal of diapers or a rapid two-day process. Begin with low-pressure activities to familiarize me with the concept of using a toilet.
Tools and Resources:
To make learning how to use the potty fun and interesting, use games, books, and other learning tools.
Flexible Timeline:
Recognize that this initial phase, called the "Playful Preparation" phase in the course, can last as long as needed based on my comfort and readiness.
Acknowledge That Every Child's Potty Learning Journey Is Unique
Varied Timelines:
It takes me a wide range of times to get used to and regular with using the potty. Our poll of the community says the following:
- 22% of children adapted within a few days.
- 29% within a few weeks.
- 26% took a few months.
- 17% took between six months to a year.
- 6% took more than a year.
Personalized Approach:
These statistics emphasize the significance of patience and tailored potty learning tactics to meet my specific needs and speed.
Consider the Role and Execution of Rewards
Strategic Rewards:
While rewards may seem counterintuitive at first, they can be beneficial if used correctly. Choose modest, regular, and immediate incentives above huge, cumulative ones.
Effective Communication:
Use clear and motivating "When-then" language. For example, “When you sit on the potty after breakfast, then we can blow bubbles together.”
Phase Out Rewards Gradually:
Once I begin to use the potty consistently, gradually reduce and then eliminate the rewards. This helps solidify the habit without making the rewards a permanent fixture of my routine.
Conclusion: Embracing a Child-Led Approach to Potty Learning
Learning to use the potty is more than just a way to get trained; it's an important part of my early growth. Understanding and carefully applying these important lessons will help me feel more confident and able to use the bathroom on my own. Remember that the purpose of learning to use the bathroom is to give me more power by teaching me how to listen to and handle my body sign.
You can find "Poo Time - Poo Victory: Step by Step - How to Train for Poo Time for Toddlers" on Tinyvers' website. It really helps.